Like palliative care and hospice for adults, pediatric palliative care is delivered by an interdisciplinary team that addresses the physical, emotional, social, cultural, and spiritual healing of the child. It can be provided concurrent with life-prolonging care or as a main focus of care -- neither hastening nor postponing death. This type of care assists the child and family in making decisions about care during whatever remaining time they may have.
One of the handouts provided by the presenter offered a list of "questions to ask children and families to elicit palliative care goals" (from The Hospice of Florida Suncoast). Among the 20 questions were several that I thought were appropriate for use in creating an ethical or spiritual will (some of which I've edited slightly):
- What are the most important relationships in your life?
- What is most important to your family?
- What are things that bring you joy and comfort?
- What are you proud of? What are your greatest achievements?
- What do you want to accomplish or do?
- What activities such as music, art, reading, massage, or touch provide peace or comfort to you?
- What do you wish you could still do?
- What spiritual or religious practices bring you comfort?
- What are you hopeful about?
- What are your concerns for the future?
- How and where do you want to live for the rest of your life?
- Is spiritual peace important to you? What would help you achieve spiritual peace?
While hospice care is covered by Medicare and most other insurance today, unfortunately, palliative care for both children and adults remains mostly "not covered" by insurers in the U.S. Some states have made progress in getting palliative care coverage for people but funding of these vital health care programs remain unresolved.
For more information on "Palliative Care for Children" an abstract and article is available from the journal, Pediatrics. My hope is that palliative care will become an essential (and funded!) part of our health care system in the future.